we go nowhere and no one cares what i haveto say about the DV. Then, after I left, she says “He assaulted me! Statutes werent followed, no preventative measures were offered, no family members were pursued for placement. She gets upset over anything, becomes irrational, cannot speak, finds a corner and remains there crying no matter what is said or done to comfort her. I was so sick and knew that the abuse I was going thru would be the end of my life. I dont understand how this is acceptable same thing. I tried to get him help but she blocked me. My heart is so heavy every single day with what she’s going through. My daughter is 18 months old i have never had a relationship with her father we have never been married pretty much 1 nite stand he does pay child support and he put his name on birth certificate after he had d and a done.He seen her 1 time when she was 8 weeks old now he wants full custody she has always been with me. I don’t have money my ex partner mentally abused me to the point where he made me believe that I was the bad guy and it’s all my fault. I wrote notes in my table I was using for school. , I was a single mom from the day my 2 girls were born until there dad got out of prison in 2016 so they were 7 and 8 when he came home i felt that he lost to much time already so i have suggested threw the courts to give joint custody so he could spend qaulity time with there dad but the past 3 1/2 years ive had CPS cops ect everyday at my door while going threw custody court and boy he painted a perfect picture to the judge now they ripped my kids out of my home because all the false alligations sure not everything is a lie but 75% is i was a single parent raising to kids all by myself no help when he finally went to prison of course i was the only one working i lost my job my home and struggled on a daily basis and now im the worse person to be raising our kids that he does nothing wrong but yet hes the one straight out of prison got married with in 3 months has a new baby and lives off his wife. I initially fought, I got a protective order but he was too devious and manipulative. God Bless! between the last trial and the date they placed him in his birth dads cousity. Since ill be clean for now on, when they test me next & I'm clean should it be over? Well Ive spoken here enough… All I ask if for Prayers Please…. $$$ dept , i am unfit for my youngest daughter but fit for my other 2 children, i am just now getting 42$$$ in child support ……….. my daughter name has been changed 3 time in multiple county, i will not stop ever …. okay..I had to come read this again! She tries to make me look worse and worse every time she files something by using, which is actually the only consistent thing, “Its the same thing that happened last time”. They kept me for a few hours and then let me go bc they said I was in no way shape or form a threat to myself. Isn’t that exactly what happened when he was taken from me and his little brother? He has bruises and cuts every time I see him. Then when CPS questioned her, she lied to them for over 24 hrs saying that she had done it. It’s caused irreparable damage to my children. I couldn't believe it!! Complaints of bullying and/or harassment vary among HOAs and can range from a simple dirty look between a board member and resident, to pet disputes, to discrimination based on race or religion. At hearings he would filibuster the court hearings with nonsense and waste time. I studied the personality disorder for nearly three years now. My head is spinning. I have my son in louisiana at the time. I got married 15 Jan 2018 to my second wife. He was paying child support and made a lot more money than me, so I didn’t want to deny him visitation in fear that he would take me to court. I wish for them to be adopted by their stepdad making him their dad. I was told I could not use that as it is evidence…I was like what???? I’ve never been convicted of a crime or anything. We also had witnesses ready to testify that they would not watch anyone sodomize a child. We have an investigator who started today because theres no proof but still they hold our baby hostage and my ex is refusing our side the chance to talk to my kids. they were so concerned that my little girl missed a day at school they missed everything else. The mother of my daughter passed away from suicide 10 years ago. They were AFRAID of me! I am far from it and he is obese. My case is in Illinois. “We are under no obligation to provide you with the list”. BUT IF I DIDNT COMPLY GRANDMA WOULD CONVINCE DAD THAT I DIDN LOVE HIM AND I WAS BEING A BAD MOTHER AND GIRLFRIEND for NOT listening to him and her….same if I didnt comply with ALL HIS SEXUAL DEMANDS OF ME>>> NOMATTER HOW VILE OR SELF DESTRUCTIVE AND IMMORAL…. My wife and therapist convinced me to sign a HIPPA form under the pretense that it was so the therapist could chat, but supposedly not reveal any substantial details, about our marriage. Well Tuesday night they seemed to get worse. But the day I said I was fed up he took our daughter and used aliases to hide her. My wife read it to me. so I can see my baby and sue then for the horrible things they have done. I went and got my kids and when I did they told me he was drinking a lot and became abusive. Yes, this is so true false allegations. But, the opposite is also true. They know the truth and they live us through this night mare. Latest abuse now is that my son since he was 10 months old suffers from chronic constipation and fecal impaction. We have a group that is fighting to expose CPS if you would like help. Nothing to brag about at all. Again, hmmm. This therapist Claudia Gonzales gets on stand and says let her live with her dad she hates her mom….. With no proof or evidence judge considered her horrible statement she’s didn’t even do a 730 evaluation and doesn’t know me at all. Well after living together for a few years our first child is born and what a adventure more good times and adventure. She can’t be a kid! Case Law: Kirkham v Anderton [1989] Commissioners of Police for the Metropolis v. Reeves [1999] Human Rights. We have text messages audio messages phone recording videos. I would love to see penalties increased for this. His mother has nothing under her name and is always moving because she has warrants on her. They are also using my x stuff against me! I could speak to my sisters and have them send you a link. We went to our first hearing and honestly I did not think I had anything to worry about. if you reply, I will and maybe we can advise each other. The accuser will get everything they ask for without ever meeting a burden of proof. It's simple do what they tell you to get your acts together. Idk what else to do if u can give Ne advise please contact me at danellehawkins28@yahoo.com I would greatly apritiate it, @ starme77 I need your advised. While MY HEART ACHES allday EVERYDAY…. It may have to do with your or someone else’s protected characteristic. My son is 5 years old with speech problem! WHEN IS IT GOING TO STOP??? I worked a lot of thirds and had a girlfriend watch the kids if I worked wkends because my husband also worked third. This right is violated when CPS workers and police officers take and/or question children without warrants or evidence that a crime has taken place. Hi, Regena. Right now there a systematic machine that has entangled itself within my family and the procedure and individuals outside of my family are only causing more harm then good Why is family right now broken? HE Never ever even talks to me about him … NEVER I have ALWAYS had to go through his mother to discuss anything of IMPORTANCE about his life…. She doesn’t talk to him, and RESENTS her father, for keeping her from her mother. Has anyone ever sued a GAL? This is overwhelmingly heartbreaking. I hope someone here can come up with a strong strategy suggestion as to how to make the parents behave and not take away the other’s dignity. He has proven to be a liar in court and they will see right through him, right? That matters because one of the key issues that need to be addressed in this case is whether you have a … But I want my kids the poor boys our children stuck in the middle, well mothers day rolls on by and I figure let me do the old kiss and make up I say you want dinner honey? My ex is building his case. The kids are only allowed to call me on his phone, while he is sitting there listening. Can the cps agent tell you that you passed a drug screen and it be a false statement? Must’ve gotten a hurried judge again who didn’t care enough to order mental eval. We loved our loved our farm more than anybody could imagine and I worked very hard ( not easy not having worked after 10 years of raising children and making sure they eventually they attended the best Catholic school With A honor roll year after year that I sacrificed to pay myself. This isnt even MOST of MY CONSTANT SITUATION… just a small Fraction of the Hell we live though daily… Imagine being FORCED to spend the NIGHT at your EXes and his Mothers house?? We have 2 minors in our home .My kids with my new spouse and I’m terrified cps or someone will try to take them. He HATES men unless it's my dad. An inability to complete everyday tasks. Apparently family court is the new hunger games…. They got a sample and It turned out that he was a long term daily user of cocaine and there was also high levels of Cocaethylene meaning he was also an alcoholic. In my situation the children eventually called their mother out on her lies and moved in with me. Mariah, have you gotten ahold of the ICWA within your tribe? She lied and said I stalked her; she lied and describe two different version of beating her while pregnant; she claimed I stalked and harassed her family members; she lied and said I told her that I was going to burn her alive after she had the baby and move to another country; she had me Baker Acted (committed to a mental hospital for 72 hours for observation); she painted the picture that I was a retired combat veteran with PTSD. Please tell me what my recourse is?? You can try to sue DCFS, but you will get nowhere and lawyers know that. Thank you very much for the article I’m in a similar situation to the accusations I have multiple text messages from the mother of our child stating she sorry she’s lied to the cops and to the judge for everything she said about me and for what she has done. I offered to take polygraph test. There was one incident she shared with me that breaks my heart and sends shivers down my back.”” She told me that photo evidence was needed for court and that doctors and nurses held her down and spread open her labia, and her buttocks cheeks were parted and her anus held open while an inside view of her rectum was photographed. But U.K. don’t seem to care! The only time the word sorry comes out of their mouth is in the form of “I’m sorry you feel that way”. The court also didn’t let me get any of did not give me child support for two +years after I gained custody. At this point I was so confused about what was going on i asked “is my grandaughter ok?” he said you dont know? Or she lets us leave and then calls every 15 minutes demanding updates until I stop answering the phone, then she files an Amber Alert on the kids and im arrested in front of the kids for kidnapping and hauled off to jail while the kids, terrified, are stranded and must wait at police station for 5 hours while she comes to their rescue. I filed a petition for the mandated child support in in dec 2015. Those who have been victimized have the real ability to seek civil and criminal punishment against those who use the authority of the state to act outside the law with impunity.". I would love to see the accusers that falsify things gwt reprimanded for what they do. My girl friend and I did agree one very important measure we should look into for our son and that would be counseling however this shelter would pay for the counseling for the woman if she remained single not if she would get back together with her boyfriend ??? More. He know once my child see and talk to me his lies are going to come out and he is doing everything in his power to make sure that doesn’t happen. Kiddo is going to be severely abused and be afraid to talk because no one is listening and responding. She has filed false abuse claims in 4 counties and finally got one county to listen. Thanks so much for your insight. On the following monday she filed an injunction against me for herself and my daughter. Arena Marie from Gainesville, Florida on June 07, 2014: I don't know if anyone on here can help or give me any advice. Like I say – Children are innocent human beans that did not ask to come here and suffer. What happens when an attorney for the respondent against me has 2 cases for myself and another mom fighting for children visitation after I, the defendant, had won sole legal and physical custody of children? The dad falsified abuse info against the mom and has had the baby since June 8th, the dad pushing court further and further out, next court date is Dec 10th. Please email me and let me know. All of which he had zero proof and I had proof of just the opposite. Now I work for the state and finally make decent money. So she had a forensic interview done with his youngest daughter who she said that daddy itched her over her cloths which we are just dumbfounded at this point because this man is an amazing father to his girls and our son he is so upset and scared he’s going to loose them forever over something that just isn’t true. In my adoption case by the judge cps workers and more my own court appointed attorney even treated me like I was scum. Over false accusations that I’m on drugs, not responsible and so. No one wins in a divorce. My son wants to come home. The PHA is the main criminal legislation dealing with the offence of harassment. This is the best advice I’ve read on this site. His first wife lied to me and said that I would lose military insurance (knowing I required a second brain surgery to prevent another ruptured aneurysm). HE wasnt even POTTY TRAINED until nearly 6yrs old… He used to CRY AND BEG TO BE WITH ME HE STILL DOES But when younger he would BEAT THIER DOG out of frustration…. I’ve been living with a custody agreement that is lies. I had no idea what was to become of it once he had finished and left on his way. My family didn’t know I had a baby till after I gave birth and they brainwashed me Into giving her up for adoption, I had to wake up at 6 every morning. They told us that our daughter wouldn't give them any names of family members to contact. I explained he was violent and I had to leave the previous night. The final injunction awarded her 2 years of full custody which I wasnt aware of until I went into the court house to do an address change. 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